Extreme Makeover- Over 50 Version
Doing all the things you didn’t do cuz you were too young to appreciate them.
Morgan Freeman, Jack Nicholson and a supporting cast showed us a lighter side of a part of our life that many of us really should take more to heart. Their portrayal of two over the hill men spoke volumes to me as I watched my own youth passing before my life. Not only was I about to turn 50 but there was in the back of my mind the remembrance of things yet accomplished and opportunities yet realized. In my haste to take care of family, friends, ministry and career I had forgotten to take care of the closest thing I possessed, me.
Now before you reach for the mouse to click to yet another dull and boring site let me expand on this idea. If you are like me and I suspect you are, you have spent many of your best years investing in the lives of your kids, church, business, or boss. You have gotten up at maybe 4am or 6 and made the trek into that mill we call life and done your duty to make ends meet, bring home the bacon. You have done your duty.
Now you are half a century old and reflective on life. Have I made any mistakes, have I done the right thing. Could I have done this or done that. Will the Cubs ever win the pennant? All of these ideas circle your mind like the Indians at Custards last stand. The hardest part of this whole thing is that you are still relatively young.
In my own case my family lives a long time. My parents are still both going strong, if not physically at least mentally. So I can look forward to another 40 years plus of life. It would be different if I only had a few short years to kick it but I have a long to time to get things done. So what will I ever do?
Getting going right now in life while life is good for the getting sounds like the best medicine for me. Maybe I’ll take up skydiving, write that novel, and become a doctor, a lawyer, or whatever. The main focus needs to be, “Get going”.
If I had only know then what I know now, I would have started a business, became a lawyer, or done so many other things that would have benefited me now in life. I would have become a totally different person, maybe even a better person. But at the time when I was going through those situations, I was way to young to appreciate what I had.
Now I’m not here to cry over spilled milk. I am here to tell the world that life is way too short and is wasted on the young. Their comprehension is so limited that they aren’t able to really grasp their limitless potential, rather they, well we all went through it, so there is no need to rehash the past.
Right now, I am bent on getting all that I can out of life. From the time that I wake up in he morning till the time I lay my head on my oversized pillow at night, I plan on squeezing the most out of the last half of my life. What that means is that I am less fearful and more fearless. Less skeptical and more optimistic. Less Cynical and more Open-minded about the wide variety of life. This is what Life is all about.
So for the rest of you out there that are spending your final 40 or 50 years of life in a stupor, on a video machine in Vegas, or at a seminar on “Being Quiet”, Get out of my way. I plan on living a full life. Full of fun, excitement, risk taking and people touching. When they finally put me in that old pine box, on my tombstone will be written the epitaph “Here lies the worn out carcass of what was once the happiest Mamma Jamma in Vegas, He lived, loved and went out in a blaze of glory”
Sherman
Sherman Ray is the founder of Diversity Networking Group, a mentoring and networking group in Las Vegas. He is also a businessman, speaker and author. To see more of his work contact him via Facebook, Twitter, Ustream, Youtube, LinkedIn. Also look for other leadership and articles that will encourage you at www.redlettermedia.net